Day 31

Thank you Mike for the comments. Vanessa is right, you BOTH are funny! lol And both you and Dyan are definetely made for each other. Love you both. As for you Vanessa, didn't I tell you pretty early in our relationship that I was a way better friend than a boyfriend? Well I hold it true to this day haha. But what Im starting to realize is that being friends with women before getting serious with them end up being a better, stronger relationship than just jumping into one. And very very few of us in the world actually do that! lol Myself for example...I think I did it one time in my life. It happened from accident. Back in California, I became real good friends with a girl named Beth. At the time, I was dating Jessica (yes Vanessa, the troubled girl!) and we were not on good terms by the time I met Beth. Anywho, because I was with Jessica, I opted not to try anything with Beth. So we became real good friends. She ended up having like a 6 month relationship with one of my friends Ski. So she was with Ski, and I was with Jessica. We even all hung out a few times as couples. Then Ski ended up cheating on Beth and she found out right before the Xmas holidays rolled around. I already broke up with Jessica (the 3rd time out of 4 times) in November of that year. Ski ended up going back home for the holidays and Jess went to Colorado with her dad and step mom. We both had no idea that our ex's were out of town (I didnt know Ski left and vice versa her with Jess) and I ran into her New yrs eve. She was jus planning on going to her room crying for the rest of the night but I invited her to come downtown Monterey and hang out with me. She agreed and thats what we did...as friends. We had a blast and the new yr was about to ring out...2002. (I dont know what it is with me and New yrs eve (Faith in 2000, Beth in 2001, Rachel in 2003). We were both too young to drink at the time (she was 19, I was 20) but you'd think we were if you saw us haha. Well to end this story, we ended up doing the whole tradition new yrs *kiss* and got together. We were together for about 2 months then found out she had to leave for Japan 2 weeks after we found out. Till this day, we havent talked since cuz we knew it was gonna be hard but that was over 2 yrs ago. I heard she is deployed in Iraq through a friend of mine but dont know how to contact her. Sorry for the long lovey dovey story but that was one of the best relationships I have ever been in. Granted, all of my relationships made me who I am today but that relationship hopefully will teach me to be friends before lovers. But its so hard when you are in your mid 20's and a guy like me loves to have fun sorry! lol. Ok ladies and GENTLEMEN, im out.